Frejyulf was in charge of small elements in several wars but never on a winning side. He devoted his like to being a warrior and leader and never decided to start a family or settle down. He lost most friends and subordinates and is ridden with survivors guilt. In his 40's he decided his life had been a waste and decided to set out without any plan, he would either find fortune or die. Either way it would be for himself. Then he became a lich and now he can't die. What a twist!